MAKE YOUR MAN ADDICTED TO YOU

Dear Readers,

Have you been curious as to how a guy can say he loves you and then cheats on you? Now I'm not an expert in a lot of things but I feel like women, for some odd reason, come up with every reason in the book why a certain person is cheating other than the actual reason. I feel bad to say this but when i hear females talk about "oh he cheated on me with that b**** because he butt is bigger than mine" or "that bastard  left me for some white b****" it makes me laugh. The reason why is because females have a strong tendency to look at what another female has that attracts her man, instead of the mistakes they make that makes their man look at that other female to begin with.

I have a few simple steps, that if followed correctly, will keep your man just little closer to your side when you're not looking.

1. LISTEN TO WHAT HE WANTS!

There are WAY too many females running around thinking they can impose their own likes and dislikes to a guy and he's supposed to accept them for her. Most times that's what i like to call UNREALISTIC THINKING. A guy is going to go after what he wants. If he likes oral and you don't feel you want to do that then guess what..sooner or later he will find someone that will do it for him. If he likes to do it in the butt, but you don't like your butt to get done..guess what ladies..he will FIND someone that will. If that's the case your best bet is to leave the relationship alone before you get hurt. Now there are some men that honestly love their woman so much that they will work around those things and accept that it wont happen. But if you're a female and you're reading this article then chances are you're not one of those lucky ones.

2. KEEP THINGS INTERESTING

I personally don't know of a man that will settle for the same ol' grindy..day after day after day. As a matter a fact i know NOBODY, boy or girl that will settle for that. If things are getting boring..ladies act fast, because once a man loses interest in your goodies it's pretty damn hard to get it back. Roll play, dress up, jump on him, DO HIM IN THE MOVIE THEATER! Do anything to keep things exciting. The spark in a relationship is just as important as the spark in a marriage. Once it's gone you either get it back or you move on before things get ugly.

3. CONSTANTLY SHOW HIM YOU'RE ALL HIS

I think this one is the most valuable piece of information you need to keep your relationship alive. I know for a fact, because I was one, and because I've seen a whole lot of them...MOST BOYFRIENDS GET JEALOUS! If you're walking in the mall with you're man and a male friend approaches you THE LAST thing that you should do is turn your attention off your man and onto the other guy. If you're sitting down with your man and a guy walks past you and admires you and you acknowledge it you will make your man feel like he's easily replaceable. I'm not saying be down his throat 24/7 but find small ways to let him know you're his. Whether it's squeezing his arm or hand a little bit when you're engaging in a conversation with another male, or giving him a kiss in public. What ever you think will get the message across. The reason i say this is the most valuable piece of info is simply because most people overlook it and think well he knows I'm his because we are bf/gf and because we are here together or whatever. That's NOT true, and a lot of times guys get to feeling unappreciated and start to treat the girl the same way or just go out and start cheating. Jealousy..like love, is blinding!

Keep these things in mind the next time you step into a relationship..they will become golden in making things stick long term! If you have a man that is satisfied with you romantically, he's never bored with you, and he feels secure with you, he would have to be a COMPLETE FOOL to leave you!